The One That Flew Farther
On comparison and mixed feelingsSometimes joy for someone
else and sadness for yourself
can exist together.That one flew farther than Ori’s.
Ori was truly happy for him.
And truly, a little sad for himself.“I just want to fold another one.”
‘Was it broken?’
‘No.’
‘Then why are you taking it apart?’
‘...I don’t know.’‘I really am happy for him.’
‘So why do I still wish mine
had flown the farthest?’The folds were still there.
That didn’t mean it had to become what it was before.Being happy for you doesn’t require me
to stop feeling for myself.Creating is a way of speaking to the world
and a way of meeting yourself.
Here, there are no right answers,
only a little more courage
and a lot more possibilities.
Room for both feelings.
Ori really is happy for him, and he really does feel a little sad. The story lets both feelings stay.
When you are happy for someone else, what would you say to the part of you that feels a little sad?








